No wonder escorts, affairs, and other such things that undermine all of society (not just children). I now can understand why some people do get frustrated and events like colombine happen.
For me I have lost all faith in mankind, I refuse ever to get married and to insure that I never have children, I am taking care of that myself. I have had men and women ask me about affairs and divorce. I can say with absolute no hesitation go for the affair. it will at least keep the family together until it is found out about.
the court system and ‘justice’ are oxymoron’s. I am not stating that you shouldn’t work on the marriage first but if both of you are unhappy admit it.